Category: Let's talk
I am not having the best night.
My aunt called us and said that my uncle was in the hospital dying tonight, and that if we wanted to see him we should go. Well my dad didn't want me to go with him for some dumb reason. Anyway I've met him once in my entire life, and he was always nice to me so I hold no regrets. i'll remember him as he was rather than how he is now.
My other Uncle the one I am very close to is in a nursing home now because he has Parkinsons disease. He can't walk and he gets so frustrated he starts hitting people. SO I wont be able to go see him but He'll always be in my heart
Hmm that puts things in perspective will you still visit your Uncle, maybe your Dad is hiding the pain and fear he feels from knowing his Brother is dying.
he might want to go but be frightened of what he's going to encounter.
Best of Luck
Goblin
I wont get to see him now. He died this morning.
I will go to his funeral though. I'll have to take off, if It's on a day that I work, other than that....I wont get to see him.
IN a way i'm glad because my dad said he didn't know anyone was there as they had him drugged up pretty heavily.
My deepest sympathies, for you and your family girl.
Take care,
*hugs*,.
Cortney
Reminds me of the time my dad almost died. I feel for you. I know quite well what it is like. John
Oh man I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Prayers are out to you and your family.
thats rough my thoughts are with you
take care
Alex.
Thank you all for your kind words. It helps really. His funeral is going to be Thursday I believe.
HUGS to all
take care pal and i hope the funeral goes well.
Well today was the funeral. IT was a beautiful ceremony
IF I misspell anything please forgive me as I am crying as I'm typing.
When we went up to my aunts house, my uncle joe was there who has parkensons disease. He is all skin and bones and he looks bad.
He recognized me and held my hand and then hugged and kissed me goodbye, but he couldn't talk to me. It's horrible watching someone who is so close to you deterioriate.
Im sorry to har that. If you ever need someone to talk to you know how to reach me. Ill do what ever i can to help
I am sorry again nd really hope you get through this hrd time as qickly as possible.
Justin
hey we will ignore the mistakes but are you sure you should be on line.
Hmmm i know from personal experience how hard it is to watch a loved one deteriorate,you feel so helpless and angry
take care pal
Alex
Hi Catwoman,
I'm so sorry about your uncles. I sympathize with you. My moms sister has Parkinsons, and she gets confused easily. She still knows people though.
One woman my mom use to work with says people who have parkinsons are still alert, it's just the body that deteriorates, but I'm not sure if that's right or not. With some people, it doesn't seem to affect the mind at all, but with others, it affects the mind a lot.
My condolences.
wonderwoman